"The" male Pill controversy, re-refrito

First I was a bit nerved because Carol Midgley came with all sorts of biased-sexist pre-judgements against men (http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/comment/columnists/carol_midgley/article6424615.ece). Then I read her comments about the Home Secretary's porn-watching husband (UK, Jacqui Smith) and I agree that there are reasons to be upset about general male behaviour regarding sex, sexuality and responsibility behaviour...

Menner sind schweine. Ok. Ok. Many men are pigs, remark on pigs. Plus, women are also.

Now, it is true that the birhts would become a more random situation. Women wanting to hook men by getting pregnant might not be given the chance if the man really refuses, so far, possitive. But, some other women will get pregnant when their partners said they are under contraception and they are not... so, this would increase the need of redundant conrtraception if the other is not trusted...

Maybe it is a bit lazy to tink that it is not eachothers responsibility to make sure that the mate is using the agreed method... But well. I'm an optimist, and I hapen to have guys which actually remind me of the pill (even thought they would not mind to make a child with me). Or maybe that is the whole irony of the thing, hahaha!